Deja's Self-Care Corner, Personal Development, Volume One, Issue No. 6: November & December 2020

I am lovable from Dejadrewit’s Personal Power deck! I am lovable! The message: I didn’t always believe I was lovable. It took many years of…Scroll down to keep reading or if you see a read more button click on it to access another complimentary article when you sign-up or get an all access subscription for only $47 per year when you subscribe.

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I am lovable card by artist Deja Osbourne of dejadrewit
I am lovable from Dejadrewit’s Personal Power deck!

I am lovable!

The message:

I didn’t always believe I was lovable. It took many years of acceptance to finally realize that I am lovable just the way I am. I only learned this after being loved by someone else, but I wish I had learned this on my own. There are still many women out there who, after many failed relationships have given up on love or blamed themselves. They lost hope. But we are all lovable exactly the way we are, with all our flaws, especially because of our flaws! Your flaws are what make us unique.

When we feel unlovable or too needy for love, we might attract the wrong people or even settle for the wrong relationships because we don’t think we can find someone better. If you feel you need to change things about yourself for someone to like or love you, that should be a warning.

Journal Prompts:

  • When have you felt unlovable?
  • What makes you feel loved?
  • Which parts of you can you accept, love, and appreciate?

Deja creates cards to inspire and help women overcome their daily obstacles and fears.

About the Author

Deja is an artist, an oracle deck creator and owner of DejaDrewit. Born in Russia and raised in NY, she now lives in California. As a young girl, Deja experienced bullying and as a result developed social anxiety. Drawing was her escape. As she healed she knew that she wanted to inspire and help people through her art but wasn't quite sure how. From 2005 until 2013, she worked as a graphic artist and designer in the fashion industry. She left to raise a new baby and discovered a way to use her art to help others and started to create oracle decks. Check out her Self-Care Corner.

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